Yoni massage: sexual energy as a healer

The yoni massage is not a massage in itself and is part of the tantra massage. The entire body is treated and the yoni massage can happen as the last part.

What is a yoni massage?

A yoni massage is a treatment for the yoni, which is a Sanskrit word that refers to the female sexual organ, the vagina. Why is this zone not allowed to be ignored?

  1. The yoni is a source of very powerful energy. When this sexual energy can be released during the massage and spread over the body, you enter a state of higher vibration. This is experienced as a boost of life energy and this feeling is retained by some even 2-3 weeks after the massage.
  2. The yoni is structurally in the body of the woman herself and functions as a storehouse for emotions and traumas. This can lead to blockages and a range of common female health problems (see below), such as having difficulty or not experiencing an orgasm, which unfortunately is more common than you might think.
  3. When blockages in and around the yoni are removed and healed, you will regain more connection and feeling in your yoni. Step by step you learn to enjoy your body in its totality again.

Yoni massage tantraThe tantra and yoni massage contain techniques from the ancient Ayurvedic health system combined with the knowledge of the sexual component of tantra. In this way a unique fusion of healing (Ayurveda) with awakening and enjoyment (Tantra) is created.

How does a yoni massage work?

By treating certain points in and around the yoni, the hidden energy can be awakened and released. Via tantric techniques, a sublimation of this energy then takes place to the higher chakras, so that a restorative effect can take place with sometimes spiritual, physical, emotional, sexual and mental effects.

The actual yoni massage only happens after treatment of the rest of the body. In this way there is already a feeling of relaxation, comfort and a confidence in the therapist. This promotes the opening of important energy channels in the body.
Activating certain pressure / energy points during the external yoni massage activates the energy and stimulates the lubrication of the yoni so that in a next step the therapist can proceed to the internal yoni massage.

During the internal massage the status of the tissues is checked and it is determined whether there are zones that are insensitive or feel too hot. By giving these the necessary attention, possible blockades can be eliminated. The location of important zones such as the G-spot is determined. Some women are used to too fast penetration with too little foreplay. Their G-spot has therefore never been 'activated', they close further away from it and react with pain. As long as a woman has no connection with this point, she will have little to no pleasure in stimulating it.

Awakening the (sexual) energy through the yoni massage with the right touch, performed in harmony with care and attention, can provide a multitude of positive effects (see below).

The massage is closed in a relaxed way so that the woman feels energetic and harmonious.

Why is a yoni massage useful?

A tantric yoni massage can be beneficial for the following problems:

  • Sexual hindrances such as lack of desire and low libido
  • Not experiencing sensations or orgasms
  • Vaginismus and tense pelvic floor muscles
  • Dyspareunia and/or painful sexual experiences
  • Cystitis
  • Severe menstruation symptoms
  • In preparation for childbirth during pregnancy
  • Common fungal infection or bacterial overgrowth in the vagina (instead of the normal "flora")
  • Endometriosis (overgrowth of uterine lining in the abdominal cavity)

A yoni massage goes to the core of the health problems and sexual blockages. As a woman you are healed from within and you discover the true meaning of sexual liberation. When you experience profound, satisfying sexual experiences from then on, this can even change you as a person.

Effects of a yoni massage

In addition to the general effects of a tantra massage, a yoni massage can provide a further deepening:

  • Rejuvenation of the whole body
  • Heals chronic ailments such as depression, fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue syndrome, irritable bowel syndrome (IBS), eating disorders, anxiety disorders, headaches, hypochondria, ... (often linked to neuroticism)
  • Sensitizing the genitalia
  • Increases sexual awareness and orgasmic potential
  • Alleviates blockages
  • Releases powerful stored or stuck sexual energy
  • Increases self-confidence and happiness


To get a better picture of how the massage is experienced, you can go to the different testimonials or videos (demo video Evelien and Saskia).
On request, it's also possible to provide you with a link to a specific video of the yoni massage from Saskia. Tantra has captured her heart and with her permission to film the massage, she hopes to lower the threshold for as many women as possible. 

If you currently see yoni massage mainly in a sexual context, be sure to read the blog article Differences between a tantric and erotic massage.

In addition, in the media section you can read from another client a story about tantra massage in the Libelle.
However, make sure that you do not create specific expectations, because every massage is a unique experience for every person.

If you don't feel comfortable at the moment to receive this massage from a man, you can also choose a female therapist via the application form.

All therapists listed here agree to the Code of ethics listed on the site.

If you opt for the yoni massage, it does not necessarily have to take place. During the massage itself permission is always requested and both you and the therapist can decide that it is not the right time for this.

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General info

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Tantra yoni massage testimonials

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Yoni egg and stick

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Tantra massage videos

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